So, Steve has made some decisions about his life.
Here are some of them:
- Nobody will know anything about his personal life anymore;
- He will try to stay sober for one year;
- He will try, for some months, follow a balanced diet without sugar, sodas and change coffee by tea. When eating, he will try to choose better what to eat.
Of course that Steve is a complex guy, so there are many other things that he is planning and thinking about. His head is a real mess
Lucky for you Steve.
10.30.2017
10.19.2017
Charles Dickens - Great Expectations - Chapter ten
Pip is willing to become
uncommon. In order to accomplish his plan, he starts to attend the course
ministered by Biddy, Mr. Wopsle's great-aunt.
Pip spends some pages explaining
the content of this weird course. He even agrees that this experience would
take time to reach its ends.
By the end of the day, Pip goes
to a pub to bring Joe home.
'I had received strict orders
from my sister to call for him at the Three Jolly Bargemen, that
evening, on my way from school, and bring him home...'
Joe is there, smoking his pipe in
company with Mr.Wopsle and a stranger.
Pip describes the stranger as 'He
was a secret-looking man whom I had never seen before. His head was all on one
side, and one of his eyes was half shut up as if he were taking aim at
something with an invisible gun. He had a pipe in his mouth, and he took it
out, and, after slowly blowing all his smoke away and looking hard at me all
the time, nodded.'
The stranger offers Pip to take a
seat on his side, but Pip refuses and seats beside Joe. After that, the
stranger asks Joe and Mr. Wopsle what they wish to drink. Joe says that is not
used to 'drinking at anybody's expense but my own', but accept the drink, as
well as Mr.Wopsle.
Pip sees the stranger stirring
his drink with the same file that Pip stole for the convict. The stranger gives
Pip two pounds, which Pip later gives to Mrs.Joe. He continues to worry that
his aid to the convict will be discovered.
See you on chapter eleven.
9.15.2017
Great Expectations - Charles Dickens - Chapter nine
When Pip arrives at home, his
sister starts to interrogate him about Miss Havisham's house and everything
linked to the visit. His first attempt was to give short answers to the
questions, what was promptly refused by his sister.
Therefore, after a lot of
pressure coming from his sister and Mr. Pumblechook, demanding for the
narrative of his experience, Pip starts to tell what happened there.
“I felt convinced that if I described Miss Havisham’s as my eyes had
seen it, I should not be understood.”
So, Pip begins to lie. He lies
that Miss Havisham lives in a black, velvet carriage that sits in her mansion.
He lies that he ate cake on gold plates and drunk wine in the carriage. He lies
there were huge dogs eating veal-cutlets in silver baskets.
Also, he lies they played with
flags. In his story, Pip, Estella, and Miss Havisham each had different colored
flags, and they waved them around out the windows of the coach—which sounds
like some bizarre piece of performance art.
Pip reaches a limit of lies and
he thinks that it is better to stop, otherwise, his sister and Uncle
Pumblechook could suspect that everything came from his imagination.
Later in the night, in the forge,
Pip confesses to Joe that he made everything up because he's so bummed out
about being "common."
“Towards Joe, and Joe only, I considered myself a young monster...”
Joe advise Pip saying that – “If you can’t get to be uncommon through
going straight, you’ll never get to do it through going crooked.”
Pip goes to bed thinking about
all the differences between Joe's house and Miss Havisham's house, and how so
much had changed that day.
See you on Chapter ten.
9.14.2017
8.24.2017
What I learned from running.
I have never been an athlete until the end of 2014 when my wife invited me
to go the gym. Go to the gym was one of her plans to start 2015 in shape. My first
thought was 'what?', but as I am married to her and I have the
principle to 'never leave one soldier behind", I said - 'yes, let's do
this'.
I ran 1 kilometer
that day. It was like I had run a marathon, (at least, that was what I
imagined), but I felt something good inside on me. I kept going to run with her
in the days and weeks following. She was my coach. I improved my running from
1k to 2k, and then 3k, and 4k. Today, almost 3 years later, I am training four
times a week to run my first half marathon (21k) in November.
What did I learn from running? To be mentally strong, to never give up, to
be disciplined and most important, believe that everything that I target in my
life I am capable of accomplishing. Why? This journey from 1k to 21k (November)
wasn't always easy. I had moments when I thought - 'Why am I doing
this?', 'I think that I can't finish it', 'I
will stop it ', 'I can't do this anymore'. All at
once, I always found energy out of nowhere to finish the training.
Today, in any area of my life, when I see myself in a difficult
situation, I remember all my practices and suddenly an inner voice starts
to say for me - ' You can accomplish whatever you want!'.
I have to say thank you to my wife who always gave me support and was
responsible for the beginning of this journey.
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| My childhood friend Alexandre and I, after running Half marathon of Florianópolis in 2016. He ran 21k and I ran 10K. Thank you my friend. |
See you all and success.
8.11.2017
8.10.2017
Natural Intelligence - People
I was wondering whether the companies are focusing much of their
efforts in this trending (big data + AI), forgetting the core of
management - strategy, organisation and leadership. More than that, are
they forgetting the need for humans?
Accordingly with Ridderstrale and Birkinshaw in their new book - Fast/Forward,
"Many companies are more comfortable analysing and debating than acting
decisively and intuitively". Furthermore, "The default assumption that
more and better information is always better actually cramps companies’
ability to move fast."
Imagine that you have a huge data system (big data) with all the
information about your customers and potential new customers. What do
they like or dislike, where they live, work, have lunch and dinner, what
is their favorite team in the NFL, what sort of car they use to drive
and better, they wish to drive. In other words, maybe you would know
them more than themselves.
Now, imagine that you have an AI system working all this information
and giving you a mountain of options to approach your client. We would
assume that the presence of people in this process is dispensable, or
even not so important. Also, we would think that this is the path to
success.
I agree that all tools are well received helping the management of
companies, but I believe that we would never forget that people will be
always running them. Once, one of my professors told me - "Competitive
differential is something that only you know how to do. Moreover, it is
something unique, singular." When I think about that, I always get the
conclusion that people are the only "material" that is singular in this
universe.
From the moment that everybody is doing the same thing, (big data +
AI), it is no longer a differential. On the other hand, if you have
someone in your company, unique, singular, he/she is your competitive
differential. So, take good care of them.
See you all and success!
8.03.2017
Quotes - Peter Lynch - Beating the Street
These are some of Peter Lynch's outcomes about the market's behavior. I thought captivating and I am sharing them with you.
He says that we should memorize and repeat the following quotes at the shower, to save ourselves from making mistakes in the future. I will make short notes for each one, reporting my own experience.
"A good company usually increases its dividend every year" (I've never thought about it. It's something to cover from now on)
"You can lose money in a very short time but it takes a long time to make money" (True, you have to be patient)
"The stock market really isn't a gamble, as long as you pick good companies that you think will do well, and not just because of the stock price" (People who think that stock market is a gamble, in general, put their money in options. I've already done it myself and it wasn't a good experience)
"You can make a lot of money from the stock market, but then again you can lose money, as we proved" (The important is act as an investor - thinking in a long term)
"You have to research the company before you put your money into it" (Don't follow the flock)
"When you invest in the stock market you should always diversify" (True!)
"You should invest in several stocks because out of every five you pick one will be very great, one will be really bad, and three will be OK" (Interesting)
"Never fall in love with a stock; always have an open mind" (I have this problem sometimes. I really fall in love for some stocks - I am being honest.)
"You shouldn't just pick a stock - you should do your homework" (As I said before, don't follow the flock. Someone once told me - make money demands a bunch of effort!)
"Buying stocks in utility companies is good because it gives you a higher dividend, but you'll make money in grown stocks" (Following the advice of the master Warren Buffet)
"Just because a stock goes down doesn't mean it can't go lower" (Never buy stocks because they are under the line, they can go deeper)
"Over the long term, it's better to buy stock in small companies" (This is exactly what I am doing right now. May be small companies would have a better governance)
"You should not buy a stock because it's cheap but because you know a lot about it" (Ouch!! I did a lot of that - but I learned)
Bye and success to you all!
He says that we should memorize and repeat the following quotes at the shower, to save ourselves from making mistakes in the future. I will make short notes for each one, reporting my own experience.
"A good company usually increases its dividend every year" (I've never thought about it. It's something to cover from now on)
"You can lose money in a very short time but it takes a long time to make money" (True, you have to be patient)
"The stock market really isn't a gamble, as long as you pick good companies that you think will do well, and not just because of the stock price" (People who think that stock market is a gamble, in general, put their money in options. I've already done it myself and it wasn't a good experience)
"You can make a lot of money from the stock market, but then again you can lose money, as we proved" (The important is act as an investor - thinking in a long term)
"You have to research the company before you put your money into it" (Don't follow the flock)
"When you invest in the stock market you should always diversify" (True!)
"You should invest in several stocks because out of every five you pick one will be very great, one will be really bad, and three will be OK" (Interesting)
"Never fall in love with a stock; always have an open mind" (I have this problem sometimes. I really fall in love for some stocks - I am being honest.)
"You shouldn't just pick a stock - you should do your homework" (As I said before, don't follow the flock. Someone once told me - make money demands a bunch of effort!)
"Buying stocks in utility companies is good because it gives you a higher dividend, but you'll make money in grown stocks" (Following the advice of the master Warren Buffet)
"Just because a stock goes down doesn't mean it can't go lower" (Never buy stocks because they are under the line, they can go deeper)
"Over the long term, it's better to buy stock in small companies" (This is exactly what I am doing right now. May be small companies would have a better governance)
"You should not buy a stock because it's cheap but because you know a lot about it" (Ouch!! I did a lot of that - but I learned)
Bye and success to you all!
7.18.2017
The Intelligent Investor - Benjamin Graham
"To invest successfully over a lifetime does not require a stratospheric IQ, unusual business insights, or inside information.
What's needed is a sound intellectual framework for making decisions and the ability to keep emotions from corroding that framework."
Warren E. Buffett
What's needed is a sound intellectual framework for making decisions and the ability to keep emotions from corroding that framework."
Warren E. Buffett
7.13.2017
Great Expectations - Charles Dickens - Chapter eight
After a night in Mr Pumblecook's house, Pip is taken to Mrs Havisham house after breakfast. Arriving there, they are greeted by a young lady. Pip describes the house as "... was of old brick, and dismal, and had a great many iron bars to it. Some of the windows had been walled up; of those that remained, all the lower were rustily barred. There was a courtyard in front, and that was barred..."
Oddly, the young lady allowed only Pip's entrance, leaving Mr Pumblechook on the outside. Mr Pumblechook says goodbye to Pip saying that would be good if Pip did not disappoint her sister or "... who brought you up by hand ..."
Pip outlines the young lady as "... she seemed much older than I, of course, being a girl, and beautiful and self-possessed; and she was as scornful of me as if she had been one-and-twenty, and a queen ...". She is Estella.
Conducted through the house, Pip gets a room where there is an old lady. " ... in an arm-chair, with an elbow resting on the table and her head leaning on that hand, sat the strangest lady I have ever seen, or shall ever see ..." That lady was Mrs Havisham.
Being seen by her, Pip is invited to play. In the first moment, Pip is a little scared, but is comforted by Mrs Havisham, who says that there is no reason to be afraid. After be reluctant in playing cards with Mrs Havisham, Pip calls Estella under the command of Mrs Havisham. All seated at the table they start to play cards. Estella has a look of disdain on Pip and he knows that. Mrs Havisham asks Pip why he is so patient with Estella although she only diminishing him and says bad things about him.
This is an interesting passage from the book:
‘She says many hard things about you, but you say anything of her. What do you think of her?’
‘I don’t like to say,’ I stammered.
‘Tell me in my ear,’ said Miss Havisham, bending down.
‘I think she is very proud,’ I replied, in a whisper.
‘Anything else?’
‘I think she is very pretty.’
‘Anything else?’
‘I think she is very insulting.’ (She was looking at me then with a look of supreme aversion.)
‘Anything else?’
‘I think I should like to go home.’
‘And never see her again, though she is so pretty?’
‘I am not sure that I shouldn’t like to see her again, but I should like to go home now.’
‘You shall go soon,’ said Miss Havisham, aloud. ‘Play the game out.’
So, Pip goes out with the promise to return after six days. When in the courtyard, Pip decides to explore the limits of the land. Pip has some strange views about a woman hanged ,and he believes that Mrs Havisham is the woman in his views. Frightened, he leaves the house and heads to his home.
In the way, he starts to think about everything that happened.
"I went along, on all I had seen, and deeply revolving that I was a common labouring-boy; that my hands were coarse; that my boots were thick; that I had fallen into a despicable habit of calling knaves Jacks; that I was much more ignorant than I had considered myself last night, and generally that I was in a low-lived bad way".
"I went along, on all I had seen, and deeply revolving that I was a common labouring-boy; that my hands were coarse; that my boots were thick; that I had fallen into a despicable habit of calling knaves Jacks; that I was much more ignorant than I had considered myself last night, and generally that I was in a low-lived bad way".
See you on Chapter nine.
6.16.2017
Great Expectations - Charles Dickens - Chapter seven
It seems that Pip is changing his views about his father's figure. He is questioning how good his father was to his mother and his family.
"I should have formed the worst opinions of that member of the family"
"I should have formed the worst opinions of that member of the family"
Pip is getting classes with Mr Wopsle great-aunt. He is now able to read and write - the latter, not very well. Pip describes Mr Wopsle great-aunt as "... a ridiculous old woman of limited means and unlimited infirmity!"
There is the introduction of a new character, Biddy, Mr Wopsle’s great-aunt’s granddaughter. She is an orphan like Pip and basically, she manages a kind of "shop" that Mr Wopsle’s great-aunt keeps at her Educational Institution. Pip sets out her as "... her hair always wanted brushing, her hands always wanted washing, and her shoes always wanted mending and pulling up at heel."
Pip writes his first letter to Joe with great effort. When Joe receives the letter and reads it, he starts to cry emphasising how good is Pip. However, Pip suspects that Joe doesn't understand all the matter of the letter. Joe confirm that he understands only his name in the letter - J O E, but he imagines that the whole meaning of the letter is gorgeous.
Joe starts to describe how his childhood wasn't easy, with his father restricting his access to studies and how he had to look after his mother in order to avoid his father brutality.
Pip is surprised when Joe starts to emphasising qualities in his sister and bringing recollections when they met each other in the early days.
"... your sister is a fine figure of a woman."
Also, Joe remembers when he asked her if she was ready to move with him and have a life together. Thus, Pip's sister said yes, but with one condition - bring Pip with her.
Mrs Joe arrives at home with Uncle Pumblechook after a day in the market's farm. She bought new clothes for Pip and says that from now on he will play at Miss Havisham house. Pip describes Miss Havisham as "... an immensely rich and grim lady who lived in a large and dismal house barricaded against robbers, and who led a life of seclusion."
The purpose of that idea, and may be who had the idea was Uncle Pumblechook, is to teach good manners to Pip. The chapter closes with Pip going to Miss Havisham with Uncle Pumblechook.
See you on Chapter eight.
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