It looks like the pattern repeats itself. It's sad. You rather want to see half-empty glass than all of his qualities, which are many and wonderful. Why are you not capable of living lightly?
" That wasn't good or bad, it just happened, it just is " - Zen Habits.
Try to change your perspective about life. Life is short!
" Think of nothing that happens as either good or bad. Stop judging, and stop expecting " - Zen Habits.
He is just a kid, he is learning as everybody once learned. You should just let him live his life freely, without any interventions.
Just think about this.